Abigail the Peacemaker – Choosing Peace Over Anger

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Lesson Title: 

Abigail the Peacemaker – Choosing Peace Over Anger

Goal Summary**

Children will learn that being a peacemaker means choosing kindness and wisdom, even when others are angry or unfair. Through Abigail’s story, they’ll discover how God blesses those who bring peace and how they can do the same in their everyday lives.

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Opening Story: “The Sandwich Surprise”**

* Mia was excited about lunch—she had packed her favorite sandwich. But when she opened her lunchbox, it was gone! Her friend Liam had taken it by mistake. Mia felt her face get hot. She wanted to yell, but then she remembered what her mom said: “Take a breath and choose peace.” So Emma walked over and said, “I think you grabbed my lunch by accident.” Liam looked surprised and said, “Oh no! I’m so sorry!” They ended up sharing the sandwich and laughing together. Mia felt proud—she had made peace instead of a fuss.*  

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Bible Story: Abigail Makes Peace - Read (1 Samuel 25)

Tell the story of Abigail, Nabal, and David in simple, engaging language. Emphasize:

- Nabal was rude and unkind to David.

- David got angry and planned to fight.

- Abigail stepped in with kindness, food, and wise words.

- Because of her, David calmed down and chose peace.

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Abigail Saves the Day** (A Peacemaking Skit for Kids)

**Characters:**

- **Narrator**  

- **David** (a warrior with a kind heart but a strong temper)  

- **Nabal** (grumpy and selfish)  

- **Abigail** (wise, gentle, and brave)  

- **Servant**  

- **2–4 Soldiers**  

- **Optional Kids** as helpers or food bearers: Liam, Mia, Max, or Emma  

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**Narrator:**  

Long ago, in the land of Israel, there was a brave man named **David** and a very rude man named **Nabal**. Let's see what happened when things got a little heated...  

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**Scene 1 – David’s Camp**

(*David stands with soldiers, smiling and friendly.*)

**Narrator:**  

David and his men were kind to Nabal’s shepherds. They protected them and asked for nothing in return. One day, David sent his men to ask for some food.

(*Soldiers approach Nabal with friendly waves.*)

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**Scene 2 – Nabal’s House**

**Nabal:** (crossing arms)  

Food? For you? Who do you think you are? Get lost!

(*Soldiers look shocked and walk away, sad.*)

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**Scene 3 – David Gets Angry**

(*Soldiers return to David and explain.*)

**Soldier:**  

David, Nabal insulted us! He said no to everything!

**David:** (furious)  

What?! That’s it—we're going to teach him a lesson! Get your swords!

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**Scene 4 – Abigail Steps In**

**Servant:** (running to Abigail)  

My lady! David is angry and coming this way! Something bad might happen!

**Abigail:** (calm and brave)  

Quick, pack food—bread, grapes, figs. I’ll go meet David.

(*Optional: Liam, Mia, Max, or Emma help carry baskets.*)

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**Scene 5 – On the Road**

(*Abigail meets David halfway, kneels, and holds out the food.*)

**Abigail:**  

Please, sir, listen. My husband was wrong. But don’t do something you’ll regret. Take these gifts. Let God take care of the rest.

(*David lowers his sword slowly.*)

**David:**  

You are wise, Abigail. Thank you for stopping me. I feel peace in my heart again.

**Scene 6 – The Lesson**

**Narrator:**  

Because of Abigail’s wisdom and kindness, David didn’t fight. She saved her family—and David's heart—from doing something wrong.

**All Together:**  

*“Blessed are the peacemakers: for they shall be called the children of God!”* – Matthew 5:9

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Let the children act out the story with simple props skit or puppets!

Memory Verse

Blessed are the peacemakers: for they shall be called the children of God.”* – Matthew 5:9 KJV1611

Have the children repeat it with hand motions:

- “Blessed” – hands raised

- “Peacemakers” – hands over heart

- “Children of God” – arms wide like a hug

Game: “Peace Tag”**

One child is “Conflict.” When they tag someone, that person freezes. The only way to unfreeze them is for another child to come and say something kind or peaceful (e.g., “I forgive you,” “Let’s share,” “You can go first”). This teaches that peace spreads through kind words!

Object Craft: “Peace Baskets”**

**Supplies:** Small paper plates, yarn, markers, and cut-out paper “gifts” (bread, grapes, figs, etc.)

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Let kids decorate a “basket” like Abigail’s. On each paper food item, they write or draw something peaceful they can offer: a kind word, a hug, a prayer, a smile. Then they place the items in their basket to take home as a reminder to be peacemakers.

Coloring Page**

A simple scene of Abigail offering food to David with the words: *“Blessed are the peacemakers.”*  

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